If there’s something to know about what happens when I walk out my door with my tribe, is that we can get a lot of attention and often times, not the good kind of attention – facial expressions, whispering, you name it, it’s happened! Do you get that or is just me? No, yes – just me?! Haha!
So, it’s happened where a complete stranger will stop me and ask me if the children are all mine, to which I’ll respond with something along these lines …. because, hey, no harm in playing along with what seems to be peoples worst nightmares come to reality in form of mwua.
I never did have twins – only what seems to be a couple sets in the mix!
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The old me versus the new me and the simple steps in potty training that little ones just can’t quite get right ….
Here’s to the small reminders that get us closer to victory!
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We started this Fourth of July by planning some hearty meals – had homemade tacos for lunch and will be having hot dogs and chips for dinner. Because if all my little ones eat all their food – it’s a win in my book!
A couple fun facts for you to enjoy:
Americans spent over $1 billion on fireworks in 2017
and in 2017 Americans consumed about 150 million hot dogs on the Fourth of July!
I appreciate this photograph because of the Marines pictured. Thank you to all those serving and veterans, those past and present that have kept my family and I safe.
We are truly the land of the free because of the brave.
Have a lovely and safe Fourth of July!
It’s a new day, the start of a new week, new goals to achieve and a new perspective to take on. As a stay at home mom, one of the many misconceptions that comes along with that, is that I have all the free time in the world. Negative! Ha, I wish! Aside from the my Chiari + Syringomyelia diagnosis I also hold more valuable titles, I’m a full time mommy, I have this blog ‘part-time’ and I also opened not too long ago an online shop that I make time to do my own designs. So, time’s definitely not on my side and this bedtime routine has so much truth ….
Yes, this definitely sums up our bedtime ‘routine’ around my household!
Have a blessed day!
Often times it’s easier to dwell and think of all the negatives that are in our lives. I think of my health, of the downward spiral it’s on and it’s so easy to get down, get sad and be a pessimist. The positives isn’t near in sight. But there are positives, to everything, to it all. I’ve often times think of the positives that Chiari and Syringomyelia has brought to my life. It’s allowed me to stay grounded and to live in the moment. I always thought of hospital stays as something foreign. However, having been in the hospital for weeks on end recovering from surgeries brought on by Chiari, it’s given me a whole new outlook on hospitals. There are so many people there, recovering, learning to walk, learning to dress – I was in that position at one point in my life, learning it all – all over again, from learning to walk, to going up and down stairs to learning to move my head from side to side to learning how to dress myself – I was about 28 years old at that time with three littles at home. So many people there feeling lonely, scared, hopeless, frustrated and sad. I’m so thankful to have seen that. It allowed me to see that even though I’m going through something very much valid, there’s also always someone else going through it worse than I am. There are people needing so much more than I do, having a grateful heart for what I have and changing perspective allows me to see what’s right in front of me. Only then is when I realize that I have so much more than I know.
While doing a summer assignment with my oldest son, something stayed with me, it’s from a Swedish folktale titled, “The Laughing Magpie.” The two lines are …
“I laugh because you would rather be sad than fix your own problem.”
Know that you are bigger than any obstacle and any struggle you may be facing today.
“Silly boy, don’t you see that everything you need is right before your eyes?”
If we stop and open our eyes, we can gather the resilience and the inner strength that lies within.
Photo: Joseph Barrientos
Surgery he said. Another surgery – I need a minute.
The preparing, the mental preparation, the anticipation and the recovery. One can never be used to surgery – I can never get used to surgery, one can never feel at ease knowing they’ll be seeing yet another surgeon or specialist, one can never be used to going into that doctors office and explain what’s wrong. You can definitely can never get used to being seen, most of the time half naked, being written on, poked on, needles ready and all eyes focused on you. They’re ready to see you break down, they’re ready to comfort you and they want to see your reaction. One can never be ready to be told, “it’s time” and have a team of unknown medical professionals wheel you in the operating room. The operating room, such a cold place – why’s it so cold, so unwelcoming, full of devices, beeping sounds all around, people with masks trying to make you feel comfortable, but how?! How do you feel comfortable, it’s cold and it’s the unknown – all over again. It’s happening all over again.
The surgeon called me last week and said, “results came in, good news, it’s benign, but it needs to be removed, when’s surgery good for you?” Once again, I felt alone, cold and afraid of the unknown, but why, I’ve been down this road countless times – too many to count. Either that or I’m just embarrassed to write the number down. In my short years, I’ve met my share of doctors, surgeons, nurses, hospital rooms and operating rooms. I’ve felt my share of needles, had my blood drawn plenty of times but am still uncomfortable. The hospitals make me feel uncomfortable, but it’s during these times when you leave it all in His hands and allow it all to be left up to the doctors. No matter how many times I’ve been down this road, I can never get used it.
Faith over fear knowing that my heart and soul will be at peace knowing that this is my journey. My journey, my story to. There’s no one stronger than you, no one with unique health circumstances.
This makes you special – I am special because I am 1 in 1,000 due to Chiari and it reminds me to slow down and live at the moment.
Have a wonderful night.
Happy Meme Monday to all!
When I want to go anywhere, say down the street without the little ones and my mom says yes to watching them. I often hang up the phone before she …
1. can remember how many kids Ihave
2. realizes there will be so much noise she wont’ even hear herself think and
3. cooking will make her think she’s preparing Thanksgiving Dinner
A special thanks to Leonardo DiCaprio for this picture – he’s so sympathetic to all parents experiencing the same struggle!
Have a wonderful day!